Automatic deleting of files requires file path for trash

A program I use has a feature to send files to a specified location when removing files. On my other Mac minis it was simple to find the file path. This new M.2 not sod much. Been looking for over two hours and internet is useless. The "help" just keeps saying to go to a directory that doesn't exist in a Containers folder. Does anyone know the actual file path for the trashcan in OS X 14.4? In lieu of that, does anyone know the file path for ANY trashcan that will empty either automatically or when the trashcan is emptied from the dock?

Thanks