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iMessage vs. SMS

So, a large number of my friends have both a cell phone and an iPod Touch, such as I had before the aquisition of my new iPhone 4s. And they all have a phone number and an email in their contact card on my phone. But, every time I send them a message, iMessages automatically chooses to send them a text. Is there a way to tell it to send them an iMessage, such as when I know they're home on their wi-fi network?

Posted on Oct 18, 2011 12:18 AM

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Oct 18, 2011 1:49 AM in response to WarMage

A) Everyone has iOS 5.

B) They are on wi-fi, because they have iPods not iPhones.

C) I will reiterate the original question: I have the capability to talk to people via the free iMessages or the not-as-free text messages. I would like the option to choose which one, based on when/where/on which device, I'd like them to recieve it. Is there a way, when creating a new message, and selecting a contact, to tell it to use iMessaging over the default text message?

Oct 18, 2011 2:42 AM in response to WarMage

The device will send as iMessage (to a registered Apple ID or email address) unless it is not available to the recipient. If iMessage is not available, it'll send as SMS (to a phone number only).

You do get the choice, anyway. When you are in messaging, and start to type your contact's name, the option comes up to select email or phone number for that person.

Oct 18, 2011 3:01 AM in response to igmackenzie

I did not see that, a lot of people in my contacts list have similar-'ish' names like "Cate" and "Catherine" and so when it organized all the results of typing in "ca" with their phone numbers listed first, and emails listed second, it appeared that I didn't get a choice until either I scrolled all the way down, or typed in a lot more of their name so that the iPhone knew I was talking about a specific contact. Thank you for letting me know I just missed something.

Oct 18, 2011 8:45 AM in response to WarMage

My older son has a non-Apple phone with SMS/MMS. He also has an iPod Touch currently running iOS 5. iMessage is configured with his Apple ID and he's able to communicate with his brother's iPod Touch and with our (wife's and my) iPhone 4Ss.


His contact card on my phone has a "mobile" number and an Apple ID email address labeled as "iCloud".


What I have experienced is this:

  • two separate threads in my Messaging app, one to/from his phone, the other to/from his Touch.
  • I can message each separately by opening the respective thread in Messaging
  • When asking Siri to "Tell <son> I'm on my way home", she'll use whatever thread he last messaged me on.
  • If I ask Siri to "Text <son> mobile", she responds "<son> doesn't have a mobile number".
  • If I ask Siri to "Call <son> mobile", she'll dial without complaining.


Maybe I need to try removing his contact altogether and re-adding it, and wiping out any existing message threads. Any other suggestions?

iMessage vs. SMS

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