i jailbroke my iphone 4s and i didnt like it. So i deleted the cydia app and then tried to reset and then wipe my phone, now it shows the connect to itunes thing. How can i solve this?

We cannot help with jailbreak. It voids warranty and Apple can refuse even out-of-warranty replacement.

You have done all we can advise ... connect and reset. But reset is not guaranteed to work.

You may well have a new paperweight.

We are prohibited from giving any help with jail broken equipment. Apple will give no help at all.

Google "DFU mode". You will be able to fix it, it is not a brick. You just have to go to Apple's competitor to get the information you need to restore it to factory state.

If the iPhone has not been damaged by jailbreaking, Restore in iTunes.