Time Machine backs up and then stops; also reformatting my disk without permission
I'm on a MacBook Pro M1 2020, running Sonoma 14.2.1. I'm trying to use Time Machine to back up to an external drive that I've used previously. I formatted my external drive to be MacOS Journaled, as I have some older files and older computers that I sometimes use as well. Everything will back up fine; then I will be told it can't back up because there's not enough space, even when there is plenty of space (and shouldn't it just be writing over older backups anyway)? In addition, my drive is now formatted as APFS (case-sensitive), which I specifically did not want. I restarted with my external plugged in and now it appears to be backing up, but again, not in the format I wanted. What is going on and how do I stop it?
MacBook Pro (M1, 2020)