It's pretty clear problem is a bug in original iOS 5 software. Definitely not a hardware problem. Returning your phone for exchange probably won't do much good. Let's look at what's going on here....Some people had upgraded their 3gs/4g to 5.0 with no problems. Then bought new 4s with no issues. Then downloaded upgrade 5.0.1 'fix' to new phone, again with no issues (this is my case). As you can see below, my 4s w/5.0.1 works great. I've never had any issues.
Some people upgraded to IOS 5.0 to their 3gs and/or 4g phones, and inherited an immediate mess concerning several issues, battery drain being the most prevalent. Some didn't.
Then new 4s is released, and resident 5.0 worked great out of the box, for most, but not for all. Then 5.0.1 'fix' is released, and cleaned up issues for some, but not others......and for some, made matters even worse, for both 3gs/4g users and new 4s users alike.
This tells us, without any doubt, that problem lays within original 5.0 release....and Apple has already said as much. There is a bug in there that many have found work-arounds for, to fix their issues, but yet same work-arounds (reload, etc.) only exasperated the problem for others, and can even trigger new ones. And yet for others, 'fix' update had no effect what-so-ever (like me).
My humble suggestions are:
- If you are on 5.0, do not upgrade to 5.0.1 'fix'. If it doesn't work, it can seriously trigger a worse condition.
- Drain battery to a condition that phone will not turn on any longer, then do a full charge with wall charger. This means after phone shows 100%, keep on charger for additional 3-4 hours. Your phone will charge at normal rate until it hits 80% (but will show 100%), then a slower 'trickle' charge is enabled which truly tops off charge to a maximum value. Do this several times allowing phone to drain completely every time. This is necessary for every new battery, no matter what the brand of phone, to maximize it's potential. Also, take phone out of any case you may have on phone, to reduce heat buildup during charging. Batteries can be permanently damaged if allowed to get 'hot' often.
- Do a hard reset...hold home page button on bottom front of phone, the same time as holding on/off/sleep button down on top right of phone Let the swip bar come up and ignore. Release only after Apple logo shows, then release immediately. Phone will go blank for a short time, then you'll see a 'small gear' turning, then you will be brought to normal home screen. This may, or may not, solve some problems for you, but cannot make anything worse.
Because so many people are having success with so many different 'fixes', and others are not, shows that bug is multi-layered. Some have telecom 3g problems, some email problems, some wifi problems, etc. So unless you really know what you are doing, I would suggest do nothing other than above steps, along with disabling everything you don't need. Note that you can turn phone completely off by enacting the sleep/off button and home button at the same time, and then using the swipe to shut it down. If you charge before going to sleep, at least you will wake to a fully charged phone
Problem phones are running functions that should be off, unless called up by an action on your part. It's a bug that Apple will fix soon. And because is a multi-faceted problem, it's not an easy fix for them, obviously. You can bet they are in Crisis Mode right now.
I know this is a pain in the *** for many, but just hang in there. A fix will be found. I would resist the temptation to believe the 4s is just not a good phone, and go get another brand because of a new software glitch. Happens every time, although often not this bad. I would hope Apple will relax the window for returns, as this is clearly a situation that they created. And forget getting relief from Apple store geniuses'. Corporate is not going to tell them a thing unless they know what 'exactly' what is going on, and have a definitive 'fix.
Also remember that 17% loss per hour with 3g connection = their 6 hour stat. - Standby 200 hr. = .5 per hour loss to be expected. So if you have rapid loss, try playing with 3g settings. Probably means 3g is trying to connect when it shouldn't, be it from maps, itunes sync, siri, whatever. Also, phone should NEVER get 'hot'. Means it's operating overtime, and you should at least turn completely off until cools down.
