Currently Being ModeratedDec 8, 2011 11:47 PM (in response to christina163)
You cannot have turned off everything, if it is still doing it.
However, if you are using the same iCloud AppleID on both phones then iCloud is working as expected. Syncing between multiple devices is exactly what iCloud is designed for.
If you want to keep your stuff separate, you need separate iCloud accounts.
Currently Being ModeratedFeb 12, 2012 9:32 AM (in response to Julian Wright)
My problem with having seperate accounts is that we cannot then find each others's devices anymore. Even using iCloud.com from safari on my iPad doesn't work because apple is detecting I'm on an iPad and so not letting me use safari to access iCloud via web
Currently Being ModeratedFeb 12, 2012 10:04 AM (in response to dhjdhj)
we cannot then find each others's devices anymore.
Yes, you can. Just log in to the "Find my iPhone" app using the Apple ID for the device you want to find.
Why do you need to find each others devices though? Do you lose them often?
If you're actually using "Find my iPhone" as a way to keep track of each other, then you should be using the "Find my Friends" service and app on your devices.