Should I bother to upgrade to iPhoto '11 if I have iPhoto '09? If yes, do I need to buy iLife?
Apple no longer sells iLife '11.
You can buy just the apps you want via the App Store.
I would probably ask this in the iPhoto forum. https://discussions.apple.com/community/ilife/iphoto
Incidentally, you're in the Snow Leopard forum, yet your info says you're on Tiger on an iBook?
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