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Q: Stop birthday repeats for deceased in iCal

How to change “never” to a specific date to stop.

My friends are passing away and a 112 year old message is meaning less.

I want to be reminded of those who are still alive.

MacBook Pro, Mac OS X (10.7.4), iCal 5.0.3

Posted on Aug 3, 2012 9:18 AM

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Q: Stop birthday repeats for deceased in iCal

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  • by Ferd II,

    Ferd II Ferd II Aug 3, 2012 5:17 PM in response to bllc
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    Aug 3, 2012 5:17 PM in response to bllc

    bllc,

     

    Sorry to hear about your losses.

     

    Have you tried removing the birthday entry for the dearly departed from Address Book/Contacts?

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  • by bllc,

    bllc bllc Aug 3, 2012 6:33 PM in response to Ferd II
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    Aug 3, 2012 6:33 PM in response to Ferd II

    That is an option. However, in iCal, there’s an option for “repeat - every year” and “end - never”. I wish I could change the “never” to the date of death (or so) and have iCal no longer import the birthday. Sadly, I can’t edit “never”. Thanks anyway. What I’d like may require a program rewrite from Apple.

  • by Ferd II,

    Ferd II Ferd II Aug 3, 2012 7:48 PM in response to bllc
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    Aug 3, 2012 7:48 PM in response to bllc

    bllc,

     

    If you just want to remember the birthday, you could also create a separate birthday event for the purposes of remembrance and delete the birthday entry from Address Book. That would enable you to display the event without being remided about the 112 year birthday.

     

    Another consideration is Dates to iCal, by John Maisey.

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  • by johnbojaen,

    johnbojaen johnbojaen Aug 19, 2015 4:28 AM in response to Ferd II
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    Aug 19, 2015 4:28 AM in response to Ferd II

    I think it is time for Apple to accept death is part of life (Facebook, for instance, has already done it and gives us the ability to notify when someone is gone). I don't want to delete data from my deceased contacts, I just want my devices to stop urging me to congratulate someone which is no more among us.

     

    And this could be also helpful with people that were once part of our lives and now are very (emotionally) distant. I would like not to be reminded of their birthdays. But maybe next year we recover our friendship or I need something from them and I want their data to be in my address book.

     

    Apple should give us the ability to disable the birthday reminder for selected contacts, because it is surrealistic having the same bonds with family, friends, coworkers, neighbours, the plumber, the electrician or our children's friends parents.