HD > Library > Fonts is where you put everything? >>>> YES.. I PUT THERE EVERYTHING
i have already found that the font in bookmarks bar is HELVETICA LIGHT.
i cannot erase it because is in the system/library/fonts.
i dont know if its normal to have helvetica light in that folder?.. i dont even know if my system folder is with the exact same fonts as everyone...
OMG everything is a mess i wanna cry
Sorry for hijacking the thread - I thought that it might be helpful to have the information in one place for people with the same problem, and I was trying to help the original poster as well. I haven't been able to find very much information on this problem, which is why I posted here about it. I also bumped it for her, after it had been more than a week. So again, sorry.
Margie, that is not Helvetica Light.
I think the only way you're going to solve this is to take all the HD > Library > Fonts folder off to the desktop.
Restart your Mac, and add back a group of five back, then test Safari, and keep going like that until you find the group of five that sets off the odd font. Then you just have to check the last group, one by one.
Or look through your Font Book fonts, one by one, til you find the one that looks like the menu font.