When I go to settings/imessage under the heading "you can be reached by imessage at:" if has my phone numer ticked and greyed out and the my email address appears also ticked but not greyed out. In "start new conversations from:" my number appears there not ticked and the email address is below and ticked. Niether i this area is grey. That is how I have chosen my settings
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