WHY AM I UNABLE TO UPGRADE TO IOS 6 AFTER MANY ATTEMPTS?
Any error message?
Are you sure you have an iPad 2 and not the Original iPad?
Yes ...I have an iPad 2 .... on some attempts got error 3259 ....
Did you disable antivirus and firewall?
yes ... disabled both
Here's an article about error 3259.
It sounds to me like you're using an old version of iTunes. You need iTunes version 10.7.
You can get it at http://www.apple.com/itunes
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