when u sync contact does that go both ways. I mean will contacts on my phone that are not on my mac get copyed to my mac?
for my iCloud stored contacts it works both ways.
Yes, it should be bi-directional as long as you have at least one contact on your Mac prior to enabling contact syncing (if you get a merge or replace prompt, choose merge).
I meant in itunes. Sorry should have stated.
Yes, for iTunes syncing too.
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