I set up a shared calendar on iCloud. My mom's iPad shows it. Also my Mac shows it. Can I put an event on it with an alarm for me but not for her? Up to now, when I wanted this, I have put two events in, one without alarm in the shared calendar, and one with alarm in my own non-shared calendar.
Maybe a slightly less desirable solution: is there a way to copy an event from one calendar, so I can add it to the other calendar?