Currently Being ModeratedDec 24, 2012 4:33 PM (in response to gavjeny1)
You cannot reset or recover a password. You have to restore the device within iTunes. You want to use the same computer that you always sync with so that you can restore your apps and other media. You can restore with any other computer, but you will lose everything on the iPad.
Instructions can be found here.
Make sure that you pay attention to the section at the very of the article that talks about having never synced your iPad with iTunes. You may need have to restore the iPad that way.It is very likely that she will need to use recovery mode. Read about it here.
Currently Being ModeratedDec 24, 2012 4:49 PM (in response to Demo)
I'll sumarise. A password is used to prove an identity. Inability to remember the password is proof of not being that identity. Any system that provides a way of remembering/guessing the password is an obvious joke.