i tryed getting on siri but it is not on settings,general,restrictions or anything i cant seem to find it
You turn Siri on in Settings. Ten when you want to use Siri press and hold the Home button.
You posted in the iPad forum instead of the iPhone forum. To get answers to your question, next time post in the proper forum. See https://discussions.apple.com/index.jspa I'll request that Apple relocate your post.
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