I suspect you have an iPhone 3G & need iOS 4.3 or higher to run/use certain apps, correct? If that's the case, you can't. iOS 4.2.1 is the end of the line for the iPhone 3G, there are no further updates available.
Sorry, but if this is your situation, you'll have to purchase a new phone.
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