Currently Being ModeratedJan 7, 2013 10:57 AM (in response to justlotte)
No. If you never sync your phone, then you don't have a backup that you can restore your phone too. NOt unless you have icloud set up and have a backup in icloud.
If you do have an icloud backup http://support.apple.com/kb/HT1766 you can restore your phone to that backup.
But it sounds like you may not have one, and there is no way to retrieve the deleted message. Sorry.
Currently Being ModeratedJan 7, 2013 11:02 AM (in response to razmee209)
thank you.... dumb blonde question but is there any way of knowing IF ive ever backed up by icloud before (maybe i did) before i actually do it?
is there any software i can dload to retrieve these messages??