Currently Being ModeratedFeb 8, 2013 2:23 AM (in response to Drodgers2000)
Bluetoooth DATA transfer has NEVER been allowed from iOS devices.
To prevent transfer of licensed material such as music and images Apple has disabled the DATA transfer protocoll within the core OS.
Bluetooth may only be used to pair with handsfree mics headphones and keyboards.
Sorry you are missing nothing !
The only way to activate the Bluetooth DATA transfer protocol involves jailbreaking and you will have to look to the greater inter webs for that.
(and risk the security stability and warranty issues that go with it !)