Currently Being ModeratedFeb 14, 2013 8:35 AM (in response to sysx)
Ok I solved my own problem.
I only had "CalDev Calendars" on my server iCal, so I un-enabled the calendar account in iCal preferences, then added a calendar and an "On My Mac" calendar appeared. I re-enabled my "CalDev Calendars" in preferences and now I have both "CalDev Calendars" and "On My Mac" calendars on my server iCal. This also returned the menu items missing under "file" menu.