Currently Being ModeratedFeb 25, 2013 6:50 AM (in response to patrice005)
Because you share the same iCloud account with your wife, so iMessages will go to her phone as well as yours. Go to Settings/Messages on each phone and make sure they have different target addresses.
Currently Being ModeratedFeb 25, 2013 6:51 AM (in response to patrice005)
Because you share the same Apple ID, & that's how things are designed to work. You can adjust here: Settings>Messages>Send/Receive. Either that, or you need to get separate Apple ID's for stuff like iMessage.