Q: since installing a new router my mac wont remember it

Recommended settings for Wi-Fi routers and access points

First contact your ISP.  You need to confirm that the issue is not on their end.

Change your router channel.  Sometimes this is all you will have to do.

Power cycling the router.  Read the router's user manual or contact their tech support for instructions.

System Preferences/Internet & Network/Network

Unlock the padlock

Locations:  Automatic

Highlight Airport

Click the Assist Me button

In the popup window click the Diagnostic button.

System Preferences/Network- Unlock padlock.  Highlight Airport.  Network Name-select your name.  Click on the Advanced button.  Airport/Preferred Networks-delete all that is not your network.

Place a check mark next to "Remember networks this computer has joined."  Click the OK button and lock the padlock.  Restart your computer.

http://support.apple.com/kb/TS1920 Mac OS: How to release and renew a DHCP lease

No internet connection (wireless)

Check to see if an extra entry is present in the DNS Tab for your wireless connection (System Preferences/Network/Airport/Advanced/DNS).

Delete all extra entries that you find.

Place a check mark next to "Remember networks this computer has joined."

Other resources to check into:

Configuring 802.1X in Mac OS X Lion and Later

Non-responsive DNS server or invalid DNS configuration can cause long delay before webpages load

Netspot

How to diagnose and resolve Wi-Fi slow-downs

Pv6 troubleshooting

OS X Mountain Lion: Check the status of your network connections

OS X Mountain Lion: Requirements for wireless Internet access

What Affects Wireless Internet?

Solutions for connecting to the Internet, setting up a small network, and troubleshooting

In the Network preference pane, make a note of all the settings for the Wi-Fi connection. Then delete the connection and recreate it with the same settings. Save your changes and close the preference pane. Test.