I recently updated my Iphone with the new software.. My wife and I share the same account.. after the update she now gets all my texts... She doesnt want them how can we turn it off.
It's because you are sharing an Apple ID. Go into Settings/Messages, scroll down to Send & Receive and turn off the relevant addresses you each don't want to use.
Go to Settings/Messages and uncheck the accounts you don't want to see messages from.
A better alternative is to create a separate Apple ID just for iMessage for one of you. In Settings/Messages you can log out of your current Apple ID, then log in to the new one.
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