Q: if i dont remember my secerity question answers and i dont have the option to reset them what do i do.

Hey there Shawn,

It sounds like you are unable to reset your security questions and do not have a rescue email address setup to do so. According to the following article you will need to contact Apple for further assistance. Keep in mind you will need to verify your identity:

If you can't reset your security questions

Contact Apple Support in either of these circumstances:

• You don't see the link to send a reset email, which means you don't have a rescue address.
• You see the link to send a reset email, but you don't have access to email at the rescue address.

A temporary support PIN isn't usually required, but Apple may ask you to generate a PIN if your identity needs to be verified.

If you forgot the answers to your Apple ID security questions
http://support.apple.com/kb/HT6170

Thank you for using Apple Support Communities.

Regards,

Sterling