Continuing where I left off. Just as a matter of updating, I've only used Safari, not Firefox, since advised not to. I've reseated the RAM, and disabled Java in Safari. The only peripherals I use are an ext. HDD and an ext. Optical Drive, but they're not connected 24/7, only when I need to use them specifically. I was finally able to get AHT to run (refer to the link to that post above) with varying results, mostly says everything's okay. But Friday night, had another KP, so I ran the AHT, and it quickly reported an error (4MEM/1/40000000). Then came Saturday morning...
I'll try to make this short and sweet, so bear with me and ask for more details, if required. I powered up my MBP to the eternally spinning gear.
Safeboot worked, ran DU verify, failed, corrupt, repair.
Reset NVRAM/PRAM
Boot to SL Install Disc, ran DU, verify, got "Invalid Sibling Link", Rebuilding Catalog B-Tree, corrupt, repair.
Ran Disc Repair, could not be repaired, backup, reinstall OS.
Reboot, Safeboot, couldn't mount flash drives, backed up to ext. HDD.
Ran Rember, loop 6 reports error, saved the log.
Reboot to AHT on flash drive, error 4MEM/2/40000000
Since then I've been swapping RAM to see if I can find one that fails, one okay. Nothing super definitive, yet, but still running tests. The first thing I did was to remove the top RAM. When I rebooted, no screen at all, just black, no post chime. Then I replaced the top module and pulled the bottom, reboot, still got the spinning gear, reboot to AHT flash drive, 2 tests say okay (always running extended tests). Still swapping and testing. Ordered 2 x1GB sticks from Crucial.
So, cut to the chase. I've read a bit about the Invalid Sibling Link. Some say run variants of FSCK in single user mode, some say put startup disk on Spotlight's privacy list, then re-add it. Here's the question: Is there a good, known way to fix the Invalid Sibling Link thing, or should I proceed to a clean (re)install?