Q: I forgot my security question answers and I don't see a link ANYWHERE.

You cannot reset them - you need to contact Apple Support to have them reset:

ACCOUNT SECURITY CONTACT

Best of luck,

GB

Use this to contact Apple Security about your security questions. Contact Apple for help with Apple ID account security - Apple Support  If your country is not listed, then use this form to email iTunes support. http://www.apple.com/emea/support/itunes/contact.html