Greetings michelfromhouston,
After reviewing your post, it sounds like you are not able to hear the other person on a phone call, but they can hear you. I would recommend that you read this article, it sounds like the trouble is with the receiver and this article may be able to help.
If you can't hear a person on a call or voicemail or if the sound quality is poor on iPhone - Apple Support
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Take care