Q: I'm looking at getting a ipod, but my laptop doesnt have internet connection at all, how do I put music onto my ipod without iTunes?

You need to get your laptop on the internet because, without iTunes, you can't do much with it.

maybe a friend's internet? Or the library?

If you're talking about an iPod touch read here

https://www.apple.com/support/ipodtouch/

You do need the internet to set it up and to download content purchased from iTunes. If you want to put your own music onto your device (all my music is from cds I own) then you need iTunes)

If you have an Apple store perhaps you could make an appointment and see if they can get you iTunes on your computer and help you set up an iPod.

Then I'm afraid you need a regular MP3 player. I have a Sandisk one that I can drag and drop to.

Apple's work flow is that iTunes and the internet is mandatory to set things up.