Q: Where is the safari reset button on 102 9.0.1? Its not in my drop down left corner saying safari.

Safari 9

Apple replaced the familiar "Reset Safari" with "Clear History..." menu option.

For details about Clear History...:

https://support.apple.com/kb/PH21412?locale=en_US

Note:

If you hold the "option" key down and click "Clear History...",

"Clear History... will change from "Clear History"  to "Clear History and Keep Website Data".

Clicking on it will delete history but keep all other data intact.

Also, if you look on the bottom left of the "clear history" menu, you will see a "?". Click on that and soon a screen will come up and tell you what clear history actually deletes.