I believe that it is clear that there are both similarities and differences in people's experiences.
The similarities: Preview uses a LOT of RAM - this is not a problem per se; but
The differences: Preview releases it/does not release it as needed. This becomes a serious problem when the memory is not released.
It is usually easier to pinpoint a problem if it occurs all the time, or for everyone.
What I see in my mac: Preview can be seen to use 10GB or more, BUT most of it is listed as "Compressed" (meaning that it will in actuality use signficantly less than the number listed); I have 16GB, and I can be running Final Cut Pro X and Motion, and a dozen other applications without a hiccup even if Preview is listed as using 10GB. Each time I close a document in Preview the memory usage decreases; each time I scroll up and down it increases.
Try as I might, I could not make either Preview or the system crash or quit other applications for lack of memory.
So, whether or not there is a bug in Preview (or, as has been said, in PDFKit), the most significant question may be: what is different in machines where there are crashes and machines that work fine? Usually the answer boils down to other software.