If you're using the stock Apache, it's 1.3 on regular OS X. I think it's Apache 2 on OS X Server, but I'm not certain.
If you're asking because you've installed Apache 2, but want to make sure it's the one that's running and not the stock Apache, one way to tell is to examine the headers it returns. This Terminal command will show your headers (just enter it and hit the "return" key):
<pre class="command">curl -I
http://localhost</pre>
Here's what I get:
<pre class="command">HTTP/1.1 200 OK
Date: Mon, 02 Jul 2007 13:09:06 GMT
Server: Apache/1.3.33 (Darwin) PHP/5.2.0 mod_perl/1.29
Content-Type: text/html</pre>
As you can see, I have the stock Apache, but I've installed PHP5.
charlie