Perhaps you should research what you buy your child. Nowhere does it say that the Touch has parental controls and many other sites that review it do state that it doesn't. It's not apple's responsibility to post everything the Touch can't do, only what it can. It can't make popcorn either but I'm not outraged by it because no one says it can.
And many internet and media devices and other such things do not have parental control abilities.
I think the statement, "I am mature enough for not being trapped by Apple's claws" is quite dramatic and ridiculous. Many people buy iPods and Apple devices because they are well made products. We aren't brainwashed consumers. We buy them because they are some of the best.
How about you actually be a parent instead of blaming apple for not doing your job?