Except, Nokia was one of the very first phones that did in fact work with Apple isync and bluetooth... I don't really see how Nokia and Apple work any less or better then other cells.
The overall technique for making cell phones work with Macs is still in relative infancy - Besides, at some point we'll all be buying Apple cell phones.
Don't dump your Nokia, it remains one of the best manufacturered, cutting edge phones on the market.
PS - In the past two weeks alone Apple and Nokia have reach deals to do some Open Source together as well as create a Safari type browser for Nokia phones... So much for not being "friendly."