iPhone won't receive vCards!
However... we're probably going to want to trade a bunch of address book entries, so I decided to test out how that might work. I exported a vCard from Address Book, and emailed it via thunderbird (as an attachment) to my gmail account, which the iPhone polls via iMap (this is with the latest iPhone software, of course)
When the mail arrives at the iPhone, however, the summary is that the message has no content. When you read the email, it shows the vCard -- as raw text, not as an attachment. There's no way to add it to the contact list. Also, there's a fractional second of delay before the vCard's text appears, so I think the iPhone is opening the attachment and deciding to just display it as text.
The copies of the emails forwarded back from gmail to my main email address contain the vcard as an attachment, so I don't think gmail is at fault (unless it is a weird iMap problem).
A search of the current iPhone manual seems to imply that .vcf isn't a supported attachment type, yet reading around the discussions seems to imply that it is (or was). What gives?
Obviously I could work around things by just exporting the desired vcards and emailing them to the family's laptops for syncing to the iPhones, but I'd still like to know what's going on.
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