Thanks for the new info, yattaman
I do not see a question in your latest post, but it seems to me that your TV capture device or its software is probably
conflicting with iSight or your other applications.
The software that you use to drive your iSight always "takes over video input" while it is in use, so that may be your problem. As explained in
this Apple kBase article, iSight can be used by one application at a time.
If you are using only one app at a time but still have the problem, be sure all your software, including the TV capture software and QuickTime are up-to-date. If your problem persists, the only suggestion I can offer is that you disconnect your TV capture device and uninstall any software that was installed with it. Carefully follow the instructions for uninstalling in its documentation. If the problem goes away when the TV capture device is not installed and returns when you install it again, that device, or its software, is the source of your problem. If the problem remains, the only workaround I know is to uninstall the conflicting device / software while you need to use the other applications that experience the problem you describe.
If you do not get the help you need here, you may be able to find additional help from the "Support" section of the web site for your TV capture device. Some of them even have a dedicated forum for users of their product.
EZ

Jim
PowerBook 1.67 GHz w/Mac OS X (10.4.11) G5 DP 1.8 w/Mac OS X (10.5.2) External iSight