LOL, I couldn't agree more. Apple provides a utility to Sync files, contacts, etc... but only if you buy .Mac, and then only through .Mac. This should come standard on every Mac, period. All I want to do is sync my laptop hard drive to an external as a backup just in case someday (like happened to my iBook) something fails catastrophically. For all the sophistication of OS X, it's such a basic thing to have missing.
Just to continue the ranting a bit... I remember the good 'ol days when "iTools", .Mac's predecessor was FREE... yes FREE! Email account, webspace, and iDisk space, all just for being such a wonderful, loyal Mac customer... man, where have those days gone...