Some developers for the iPhone, with the new SDK, and probably in violation of their NDAs, have reported that the firmware update appears to have A2DP support in it.
Agreed, it's unreal that something as hip and modern as the iPhone won't do bluetooth stereo. We can hope it actually makes it into the device, assuming the hardware in the current models support it, not just the software.
All that aside, I've decided with my iPhone, that the battery life is poor enough already that I'm not overly anxious to run the juice down any quicker by using bluetooth to stream the audio, when I can just plug the phone into the USB jack in the center console and get all the Ford Sync features of the phone AND charge the thing while in use, rather than run the battery down. 😉
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