Collation as a saved default
(On a side note, why in the world would non-collated be the default, when most jobs would want some number of full copies rather than copies of each page separately?)
But for now, it's killing me that there doesn't seem to be a way to do it. At least on my machine. I've tried trashing com.apple.print.customsettings but this did not help. But please let me know if you ARE able to save that setting, since of course this would be some indication that something is wrong with my machine/software.
2.4 GHz MacBook Pro, Mac OS X (10.5.2), 4GB RAM