As far as I know, it is a feature of the email client. So Outlook will work with Outlook, but none others! Thunderbird will do it on the Mac but again only with another Thunderbird user. The reality is that part of the sending process is a confirmation from your intended recipient's server. So you know the email at least got as far as the right server. But then there is no standard to further know if an email actually ended up on the recipient's computer.