This is a futile endeavor. There are no jumpers on the logic board that will let you change the FSB or the CPU multiplier to overclock, nor is this possible through EFI. Evidently you have enough sense to know that $250 for an extra .1GHz clock speed bump is not a great value, so I suggest you listen to yourself, as well as your wife, or chances are you'll be sleeping out in the garage for the next few weeks.
In all seriousness.....take that $250 and put it towards something else--upgrade the machine to 4GB of RAM, the larger hard disk, the high res display, or take your wife on vacation. You will never, ever, notice a difference between 2.5 and 2.6Ghz unless you run synthetic benchmarks. And even then, any difference will be miniscule. In fact, there is very little raw speed difference between the new Penryn based MBPs, and the older Merom based models. Any major differences will only be realized if the application is optimized for the SSE4 instructions on the new Penryn chip, and very few applications actually are.
These price premiums are designed for people, well, like yourself, who have in inexplicable need to have the top of the line, even if the return for the cost is minimal. This is the same sort of marketing tactic used to get people to shell out an extra $200 for the black Macbook, which is essentially identical to the mid-range white Macbook in pretty much all respects.
And no, an extra 100Mhz speed bump is utterly NOT worth voiding the warranty. even if OCing the CPU were practical.