Julian: I am trying to sync via Bluetooth. I tried to sync while hooked up with the USB cable, but the results were still nil. (I don't know if iSync can automatically sense when USB is hooked up and override Bluetooth???). Anyway, I am otherwise able to send files to the phone, but strangely, not from the phone to the computer.
The settings I see on my phone's Bluetooth are: Handsfree Voice Gateway, OBEX Object Push, OBEX File Transfer, Dialup Networking Gateway, Audio Source, Audio Video Remote Control Target. Is this what you are looking for?
Thank you for your help.