Thank-you very much Jason. I will try it, but I am fairly certain it will not work. Here's why....
It is really important to note that I do NOT sync to my PC calendars, contacts, mail or use MobileMe . These are all DISABLED in the iTunes configuation on the Info tab. Most importnatly I do not sync the Calendar of Events.
I do sync mail to my gmail account over-the-air (phone netowrk), not via PC. I also sync Music, Videos and Photos via iTunes. That's it. Nothing related to the Calendar.
Again, I do not think this has to do with SW on the PCs or Macs. I beleive it to be with the iPhone OS. Once I deleted the Recurring event, and it does not show in the calendar, but continues to be alerted whenever the event occurs. Note that I configured the Events to recur forever so this has become a real nuisance after I deleted them. There are about 4-5 of this nature I have deleted. 1 of them is a Daily occurence at 4PM that no longer occurs. Hassle.
This is very disturbing and it is being experienced by at least all the users in this thread. Granted it is not being widely reported since recurring events generally are not used by most. Also most people put an end date on a recurring event and so they just live with it until the last event occurs. But those whi do not configure something for an end date (like reminding me of a daily duty that needs to be done), and then it no longer is required....it is an issue.