I tried that after I read your post, it did not work.
I have never paired this bluetooth with any other phone, in fact it is brand new and I bought it the other day when I bought the iPhone...
So now I have tried pairing by still having my wifi on, I have tried with it off, and I have reset all the settings and tried pairing it before I even setup wifi, and still all it does is search search search.....
Any other ideas?