.. problem is: your device has no 'out'-ports, no firewire, no usb ( ! ) ...
so, it is no Apple vs Windows issue.. 😉
only workflow:
'finalize' your disks in your device (read manual)
and convert dvd..
are your disks standard-size or 'small dvds'? NEVER insert non-standard-sized disks in your slot-in drive! solve this problem by using an external disk-drive..
use the forum search 'dvd import' to find the many options .. iM08 allows a 'trick', no 3rd party apps needed, watch my screencast (9MB) ..
How to import a DVD into iM08
disclaimer: I do profit from linking to this site.
last word: consider the purchase of a non-DVD-based camcorder.. 😉