Hey, I heard from my friend! I will try to repeat the main points of what he said as accurately as is possible (for me.)
1. I need two things, one to increase memory and one to increase speed, which I should purchase here:
http://www.macsales.com/
I think the thing to increase speed is called a processor and costs more than the thing to increase memory--little hazy on this.
I can also get a CD/DVD drive to replace the defective one I have.
2. There were several reasons (besides that earlier versions of iMovie probably sucked) that things did not work well even after I added a large internal drive:
--I didn't understand that drive space and internal memory are two different things.
--I thought 232 GB internal drive space actually MEANT 232 GB, but my friend says this machine is fixed not to use more than 120 GB on an internal drive no matter HOW huge of a drive you shove in. If I need more memory, I need an external drive. Thing is, I knew my computer had so little memory by the time it found anything external it would have forgot what it was trying to do in the first place, so I avoided and feared anything external...not to mention my desk is COVERED in cables now!
3. He says iLife 08 DOES SO work on a G4! That he has a machine just like it and it works fine on his! Only thing is, a few aspects of iLife 08 won't work without Leopard.
4. We agreed that I should have the drives switched--make the 232 GB my main drive and the 57GB my slave drive, and then after everything else is done see if I still need an external drive.