benon, I hate to say this, and I feel for you, but the extension repair program which Apple and NVidia have provided for the MBPs with NVidia 8600M card failures simply does not apply to your computer if, as you say in your signature, you have the 2.33GHz model.
The 2.33 Ghz MBP that you say you have is fitted with a graphics card from a completely different manufacturer, ATI . It is an ATI Radeon 1600.
Even if your failure is due to the GPU rather than a more general motherboard failure it is not going to change this. The extended repair program simply does not apply to your computer, and no AASP is going to say that it does.
The standard process for replacing a GPU on these computers is to replace the entire motherboard (whether it be under warranty or through the extended repair process or Apple Care, or on a fee for service basis). You may find an indpendent computer technician with appropriate equipment and ability who can replace the ATI Radeon GPU on your motherboard at a lower cost than this, if it is just the ATI GPU that has failed, but it certainly would not be an authorised Apple repair.
I suspect that the advice you have received from OCA SA is based on the assumption that your computer would otherwise be covered by the extended repair program if it was the GPU which failed. I'm afraid this simply does not appear to be the case. You have the wrong GPU to obtain such coverage anyway. Remember, the NVidia is a "special case" situation caused by a very widespread premature component failure, and therefore beyond the realm of normal warranty limitations. Yours is not.
I know this may not seem fair, but that seems to be the real essence of the issue.
Rod