eVGA has an X58 that supports some, and perhaps most, Xeon cpu.
http://www.evga.com/forums/tt.asp?forumid=29
The Classified board is better designed for Xeon.
There should be others, but single socket so far.
Core i7 is Nehalem and pin compatible.
The W35xx series is what Apple uses in 4-core (single cpu) model.
The dual cpu uses 55xx and these cost - a lot, not just Apple BTO.
I think you'll find the 2.26 - or even the quad, is more than you might realize.
A. What do you intend to do and use it for? probably most important.
B. If/when you outgrow, sell yours.
C. Perhaps you would be in the market for 2008's 8-core $2399.
Most of the threads, and the question of 2.26 vs other models, comes up a lot since the 2009 was announced - take a look at what others have said; and look at benchmarks on Barefeats and in particular at various apps.
http://forums.macrumors.com/showpost.php?p=7243896&postcount=230
http://browse.geekbench.ca/geekbench2/view/115605
http://www.barefeats.com/nehal03.html (there are 10 "Neha10x" in series)