Hi,
Can you look in two places ?
1) your Home Folder/Library/Logs/iChatConnectionErrors
Go Manually to this folder.
Is there anything dated and timed at the time of your last attempt at home ?
If so can you post it here ? (Stop at the line that says "Binary Images for iChat"
2) Go to Applications/Utilities
Open Console
Use the item top left to reveal the Log List
Open the ~/Library/Logs item
In there open Crash Reporter
In that sub list should be iChat if it "Unexpectedly Quit"
If there is one there Can you copy and post that here ?
On the whole iChat should not act any differently at one location with a modem or router than it does somewhere else in terms of quitting suddenly.
However I once had someone contact me who said he could crash my iChat.
In starting and Audio Only chat or Video Chat these appeared to be what he could do.
After some testing and initial disagreement on his side about the cause, he came back and said that he had changed him modem and the issue had gone away. (He was no longer crashing other peoples iChat apps - The modem was faulty and failing).
That would seem to suggest a Buddy you contact has something about a modem or router that your iChat does not like when at your house.
A Broader view would be that something possibly about your Network (Modem or router) is the issue.
What make of modem are you using (seeing you have removed the router at times) ?
How is it set up for iChat ?
Do you have any control over this device ?
Is the Static IP from the ISP ?
Or is it a Static Routing IP layout to your LAN for any routing device ?
8:38 PM Wednesday; July 29, 2009