Rebecca Marie
While Netflix integration with AppleTV might be a great idea for you and many families, Chenks' points are quite valid.
No one here can say it will never happen, but for the reasons he gave it's probably unlikely. I think you misconstrued his answer too - don't see it as rude myself.
As for Netflix, send your feedback to Apple here:
http://www.apple.com/feedback/appletv.html
Lets them know your thoughts if nothing else.
Also, it's worth remembering that AppleTV is a worldwide product, whereas the Netflix service is localised to your shores (as far as I know).
People from the US equally and understandably occasionally wonder if AppleTv coan support Hulu or Pandora etc etc, we in the UK would like BBC iPlayer and all the other online channel feeds we can get via a web browser. Trouble is Apple are more likley to develop integration for services everyone can use than things that only one country can use to the exclusion of others. Yes, it would be entirely logical to develop local integration with Netflix type services in every country but it wouyld take far more work to duplicate the effort.
Realistically we should probably all blame all the movie studios and DRM lovers for such lunacy as regional DVD codings, and widely differing availability of films/shows from one place to another for online distribution. If it were a level playing field all Apple would have to do would be support the global content providers.