I've had MobileMe and an iPhone 3GS for about a month now, and I'm seeing a persistent problem with Apple Mail and MobileMe mail. It will work normally for perhaps 15 minutes, give or take, but inevitably it will appear to quietly lose its connection to the server. I can tell because at first after I start Mail, I will get new mail notifications on my Mac and iPhone at about the same time (within seconds of each other), but later I will get new mail notifications only on my iPhone. Apple Mail will show all the signs of a hung connection to the server. After this has happened, it will take several seconds to either quit Mail or Take All Accounts Offline as though the program has to timeout on the lost connection. Get Mail will do nothing. If I don't touch it, Mail will begin to behave normally again after about 5 minutes, but as always it doesn't last. I was a TCP/IP programmer in a past life, and this has all the symptoms of a dropped connection. Other persistent connections on my home network to Yahoo Mail and Gmail are never dropped.
Has anyone else seen this?
Some of my mail settings, which were set automatically when I set up the MobileMe mail account in Mail: IMAP server is mail.mac.com, SMTP server is smtp.me.com, IMAP using SSL on port 993, using IDLE command if server supports it.
iMac,
Mac OS X (10.5.8),
iPhone