I installed Adobe Flash player into my mac mini and for some reason it only shows the installer.
I actually went through the installation process twice and it still won't work
Did you run an installer, or just unzip a plugin file to some location on your system? The plugin should be in the internet plugins folder, so if you got a zip file package of the plugin and just extracted it without directing the file to be placed in the appropriate folder, the browsers will not find it and use it.
The simplest way to be sure the browsers shut down and are allowed to load the plugin correctly is to restart the whole system. Your browser(s) will detect and load it upon the next launch after the restart.